Saw this on someone’s status and had to post…I have witness and experienced too much hurt (often unintentional) especially by Christians. These principles are SCRIPTURAL!
“Before you pass along information or comments about someone else, let it first pass through four gates for approval. If all four give you a green light, share it without hesitation.
Gate 1: Is it confidential? (If so, never mention it.)
Gate 2: Is it true? (This may take some investigation?)
Gate 3: Is it necessary? (So many words are useless)
Gate 4: Is it kind? (Does it serve a wholesome purpose?)”